Parker @DinoNuggets@social.theliturgists.com

i’m basically just wondering if there’s anything i can say to him that can actually help him through the breakup, and isn’t just from the side of me that wants to celebrate him not being in the relationship anymore

long story short my friends bf of 2 years just broke up with him. our friends agreed he wasn’t a good guy, saw bad signs, etc, but my friend would insist that he just had a bad day, stuff like that. I’m happy they aren’t together anymore but he sees his ex as a good guy and is of course upset about the breakup. I don’t know how to comfort because all i wanna say is that the ex was a manipulative asshole and that’s really probably not what my friend needs rn?

I once got into an argument with a friend because she insisted if you were nonbinary you couldn’t use she/they or he/they because “nonbinary means you don’t have a gender so you can’t use binary pronouns” and I just don’t get it? If you say you accept people no matter what their gender is but you refuse to listen to those same people, what’s the point? It was back when I was still questioning my gender and it honestly hurt to have a friend dismiss how I felt about myself.

Often I see binary people thinking that nonbinary = agender. Instead of seeing gender as a spectrum, they still see it as “male, female, or none.” They describe nonbinary as “lack of gender” and I’m not entirely sure how to explain things to people who refuse to think otherwise. I’m genderqueer, I have a gender, it’s just wack af. One of these days I’ll be able to explain what I mean without getting annoyed I guess. But it’s hard to do that when people just don’t listen?

so like i was looking through some o l d drawings from when i was about twelve, and i literally never drew boobs on females? and i was thinking back on it and my genuine brain thought was that boobs were sinful and evil so i couldn’t draw them and now i’m going to show an in progress redesign of the character i made six years ago (i draw boobs sometimes now)

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i am sleepy

so like. cut my hair off in juuune(?) and as of last monday it’s purplish and pink. it was supposed to be blue but it is n o t-

it’s been a long time since i last posted soooo i cut my hair off, dyed it like six different times, cut up some shirts because fashion, bought a hufflepuff tie and some elf ears, and i think that’s about it

drink water (:

hey look at me i’m alive what a concept

“Sometimes I think about lesbians. And pray for them.”