toxic relationships/emotional abuse pt 2
i’m basically just wondering if there’s anything i can say to him that can actually help him through the breakup, and isn’t just from the side of me that wants to celebrate him not being in the relationship anymore
toxic relationships/emotional abuse
long story short my friends bf of 2 years just broke up with him. our friends agreed he wasn’t a good guy, saw bad signs, etc, but my friend would insist that he just had a bad day, stuff like that. I’m happy they aren’t together anymore but he sees his ex as a good guy and is of course upset about the breakup. I don’t know how to comfort because all i wanna say is that the ex was a manipulative asshole and that’s really probably not what my friend needs rn?
long enby rant part 2
I once got into an argument with a friend because she insisted if you were nonbinary you couldn’t use she/they or he/they because “nonbinary means you don’t have a gender so you can’t use binary pronouns” and I just don’t get it? If you say you accept people no matter what their gender is but you refuse to listen to those same people, what’s the point? It was back when I was still questioning my gender and it honestly hurt to have a friend dismiss how I felt about myself.
long enby rant
Often I see binary people thinking that nonbinary = agender. Instead of seeing gender as a spectrum, they still see it as “male, female, or none.” They describe nonbinary as “lack of gender” and I’m not entirely sure how to explain things to people who refuse to think otherwise. I’m genderqueer, I have a gender, it’s just wack af. One of these days I’ll be able to explain what I mean without getting annoyed I guess. But it’s hard to do that when people just don’t listen?
(fun fact: "because i say so" is a valid reason to back up anything you say about your own gender)
purity culture, chests
so like i was looking through some o l d drawings from when i was about twelve, and i literally never drew boobs on females? and i was thinking back on it and my genuine brain thought was that boobs were sinful and evil so i couldn’t draw them and now i’m going to show an in progress redesign of the character i made six years ago (i draw boobs sometimes now)
Usually wants chicken nuggets, bonus if they’re the dino variant
They/them, to be precise
Genderqueer | Queer
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