I have felt this way, and I have watched other people as the ground congealed around their ankles.
One friend's Evangelical faith deconstructed (like mine did 10 years ago), and it took awhile for this specific issue to sink in. After all, she had patriarchy, white supremacy, and purity culture to contend with first. Then one day it hit her, and she called me (her scientist friend) begging for hope. THREAD 1/