I know that all 30 or so of our family's closest relationships are with other white families. There are a couple of families who have one Asian or Indian parent, but not a lot of real diversity. Circling all the way out to 150 people, most of the PoC I encounter are my Girl Scouts. There are a few moms that I know and like but I do not want to objectify them by pursuing relationship where it has not formed naturally.
race, Dunbar's number (3)
I believe that systematic racism is reinforced by social isolation and echo chamber effects.I want to break out of these harmful patterns. But I also value authenticity, and I would never want to make someone my "token black friend" - that is so dehumanizing to them. Have any of you managed to successfully expand your social group to include people who are not like you? how did you do it?