I struggle with a different anxiety. Anxiety is common and you're not alone in it. Not by a long shot. I can't say I've been making strides but I have made baby steps by changing my beliefs over time. I recently came across a book call the power of positive thinking from the 1950s which is supposed to be really good. It's also very cheap. It was being promoted by Practical Psychology on YouTube
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