I've realized I can't reliably separate romantic feelings from platonic ones and I think I'm okay with that. Until now I've been trying to label feelings as one or the other based on society's assumptions of me.
I don't necessarily want a romantic relationship, but I want a deep and committed relationship that is similar in importance to most people's romantic and sexual partnerships.
@Laura_I same! I'm ace and it took me a really long time to figure out where I stood romantically, and struggling a little with what's platonic affection and what's romantic. I eventually settled on a similar conclusion to yours.