Relationships, enneagram, mention of concept of trauma, a question??? 

Heyo. Is it an enneagram 5 thing to not be able to verbally tell friends/family/significant others that you love them or like... trauma and past relationship/weird family dynamics???
Or like... should I just bring this up in counseling tomorrow...

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Relationships, enneagram, mention of concept of trauma, a question??? 

@winter I think it depends on the person and situation. I'm pretty sure I've known both non-5s who struggle with this, and 5s who don't. Trauma and relationship/family dynamics are enough to make expressing love verbally hard for anyone, but it sounds like it might be something a 5 would be more likely to struggle with perhaps?

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