So I have a friend who I really love. We've known each other for over 10 years. But she doesn't text me, I always text first, always invite her. She hasn't made any effort to see me since November. She has turned down my invites. I asked if I did something wrong and she said no, she's just busy. I'm not sure she cares about me anymore. I don't want to give up on our friendship but I also don't want her to feel trapped if she is no longer interested. Anyone have any thoughts?
@LiveYourValues I actually had a very similar situation with a friend of me and my partner. We made a decision to step back for a few months and were really hurt when we realized that xe (pronouns xe, xem, xyr) was not making any effort to invest in our relationship.
@LiveYourValues Best advice I can give is to communicate your pain and hurt and willingness to allow for your friend to have a grace-filled exit from your life.
Our relationship ended up re-knitting after that conversation but if it hadn’t, we would have had much closure from having made our feelings known and given explicit permission to let things go.
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