@winter it's so interesting to me how many of these questions i still take issue with, despite not being christian for years. The marry or break up thing specifically really fueled a lot of anxiety around dating. i am practicing lowering the stakes and taking things less seriously, though i would add that looks different for everybody. all that aside, let us know how it went!
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