Hello everyone I am going on a date tomorrow and my whole self is excited. Like. First is it even called a “date” we are “meeting up” but also met on a dating app... so there is that.
And how does one go on a casual date without thinking you have to get married? Why did I grow up with that? Like can’t Christians just date and the end.
Supes serious Christian married dude once said “you only have two options: you marry them or you break up”
But. Can’t you just stop dating? Or…
@winter it's so interesting to me how many of these questions i still take issue with, despite not being christian for years. The marry or break up thing specifically really fueled a lot of anxiety around dating. i am practicing lowering the stakes and taking things less seriously, though i would add that looks different for everybody. all that aside, let us know how it went!
Dating, religion, death
@winter okay but when he said that to me I asked “what if they get hit by a car”
@winter I know this is kind of an old toot but I just found your page and wanted to reply bc holy heck do I relate! I've never been in a dating relationship and I rhink part of me is so psyched out about dating, I don't know how to be casual about just hanging out with a person I like romantically!
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