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Relationship, flirting, (+) 

Hi. Flirting is weird. (Because it is) But nice. (Especially when a reference has been made to it specifically being flirting so both parties are like, heh heh heh timma be cute)
Thanks for coming to my TED Talk.

Relationship, consent (+) 

Basically replied with all of the above including finger guns 😆
It worked out well 👌
Being able to tell my actual thoughts in the moment. A concept.

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Relationship, consent (+), swearing 

Also I don’t know how the fuck to reply to texts about that....... “thanks” ???
in person I’d just do awkward finger guns.

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Relationship, consent (+) 

Hi. I just want to say it is nice to have a human ask if I am okay with things like being called “cute” and reassuring me that I can always tell them if there is something said that makes me uncomfortable.
I am not used to this at all. And is very nice and makes me think more about how I relate to others with words and stuff.
The end.

When @DinoNuggets fully has embraced their 8 type and opens the door to tell the rain to “fackoff” looks me in the eyes and says, “give it some minutes” fully expecting the rain to stop on their demand

Hello. Today is purple lipstick day as proclaimed by me for myself.
(Photo of self, no EC)

Welcome to today! I hope you have time to take a deep breath in and out and be reminded that you are pretty awesome to just be existing and stuff.
And if you don’t have time or don’t what to do that, then that’s okay too. Here are some pretty flowers that are thinking about you.

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So we have a trans rooster now! Mabel has decided he’s a boy now. It’s never happened before with our chickens so we’re a little confused that our hen has started crowing and being aggressive-rooster after a couple years of laying eggs but it’s cool we support him. Ideas on a new name lol?

Gosh. I like having feelings sometimes. They can be very nice and just. Nice.
Now... how to feel them and not go look up all the science of chemical responses and over analyze this moment. 😆🙃

Date adventures: tea boi (food mentioned) 

Also. I just realized we never ate dinner 😂😂😂 like we got lunch around 1 or 2 and then talked until midnight. Also we got tea/smoothie at some point too. But. Like I forgot to be hungry. WTF

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Date adventures: tea boi 

Okay. My can’t even-ing has melted to soft and fuzzy feelings of just. Yeah.
This date listed 12 hours.

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Date adventures: tea boi, (swearing) 

Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck. Shit.
I am going on a date.
I have so many emotions my stomach can’t handle them.
I am very nervous.
He is driving TWO HOURS.
I think I forgot how to breathe.
I am very excited.
And there are those fluttery feelings I guess.
Fuck.
I hope this turns out to be a good thing.
It’s. Like. 1.5 hours. Until. We. Meet.
The heck.
I. Can. Not.
*screams casually*

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Dating app adventures: Tea Boi 

We gonna call this dude Tea Boi. Cause that was the first thing we talked about.
We’ve exchanged phone numbers.
We’ve set up a day to meet this week.
He is driving *TWO HOURS* (and previously stated he hates driving?!) to meet up.
He also casually does photography...
The. Heck.
Obviously I’m really just looking at good things at this point in whatever this relationship turns out to be, but I have not found any dramatic red flags.
Also. He’s bi? I can’t. *screams*

Hi hello. I have a lot of sparkly emotions at the moment. Like. So many. And I just wanted to say that.
Thank you.

Dating app adventures??? Things happening??? 

So. A different person (from the one I previously tooted about) messaged me and we talked about music and tea and stress baking and outdoor adventuring.
And they politely asked if I would prefer switching apps or exchanging phone numbers because they were enjoying the conversation OR we could stay on the app if that made me more comfortable.
Heck. I like this. I’d ask that more people be like this but I found this one and they are pretty nice.

Dating app adventures 

I messaged a lovely human on a dating app who is so strange and different and they will probs never reply to my message but I just like them very much.
The end.
I just love that there are humans in this world. Like. They can be amazing.

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Adam and Eve AND Adam and Steve. It's the Bible, not the Straightble.

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This is one of those mornings where I just feel securely bisexual.

Advice for not being “out” but wanting to date? 

Has anyone had experience dating someone while they personally were not “out” to people? (Like I’m not out and would like to date *not a dude* but my parents might find out and bad things happen)
Obviously different for each person/situation. But what does that look like? Can it work without hurting both people?
I’m looking for stories because my brain says there is no way this could work and waiting until I’m out and “safe” makes me sad sometimes.

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