Should there be content warnings for puns? Probably.
Anyway. Date was very nice. Is confirmed nice guy.
Am I most excited that he knows nothing about the enneagram and said one of his small groups is going to be start a series soon on the enneagram? Yes I am.
Are there other ways he is nice? Yes.
Should I go to bed now and not tell random people on the internet about my feelings and thoughts when I should be sleeping? Yes.
Updates on potential dates. Cause. Y’all care.
So. This guy. We have not even been messaging for a week but.
1. Is nice dude
2. Is funny dude
3. Seems emotionally healthy
4. Uses semicolons?!?!????
5. Was/is adjunct professor. I did not realize how much that makes me feel feelings.
5. Is Christian and would not be weirded out by my potential worship leading endeavors
6. Has like. A job I guess.
7. Made plans with options for dinner so like. I could choose or have it chosen
Story about gaydar.
I have a strong & generally accurate gaydar. I was at a friend’s making decor for a their wedding. I met this guy (“A”) and my gaydar lit up dramatically. But he kept saying he was single and wanted to find a nice girl.
In walked a friend of mine (“R”). Every time R said something just scratching the surface of funny, A died laughing.
I’m pretty sure R is gay and has not fully come out.
And I don’t think A has come out to himself yet…
But I ship them so hard.
Enneagram 5 thoughts. Dating apps.
Okay. I sometimes question if I am a 5, but when I am messaging random humans on dating apps and something new comes up (a job, a type of music, a hobby) I go to google and research until I understand the thing...
Is that bad? should I actually ask the person I’m chatting with those questions? 😆
FYI. Any advice or opinions I get on here and I’m still probably gonna google everything anyway.
Arguments, anti-LGBTQ, religion
Always a good morning waking up to your parents arguing about how they MUST speak for God about the sin of “ the homosexuals and people who are boys and want to be called girls or have a sex change or whatever”
Both parents are quite “anti” for the sake of “God’s rules” in scripture but one is kinder than the other about it...
It sort of makes me want to grab my car keys, yell “I’m bisexual” and drive off... 😬
The Lord’s prayer in chicken form. Not vegan friendly.
Our parent who art in heaven
Hallowed be thy chicken
Thy nuggets come
Thy eggs be done
On earth as they are in heaven
Give us this day our daily omelette
Forgive us our vegetables as we have forgiven those who forced us to eat vegetables
Lead us not into beef consumption, but deliver us from the cows
For thine are the nuggets, and the eggs, and the feathers forever and ever bAWK
Dating, LGBTQ, religion, general freak out
A woman messaged me on a dating app.
And. I’ve way too many emotions & feelings & stuff. I know what none of them mean, but some are nice. But also my 5w4 wants to know all even though I *know* I can just *feel* and *be*
But. I can’t so here we are.
I already thought I’d have a lot to work w/ going on a “straight passing relationship” date, but now my self homeschooled/Christian raised self is arguing with all of my existence. It’s fun.
Have a nice day.
We are the gay agenda
Queerness, “not out”
I’m thankful for places I can casually bring up, joke about, or work through that I am queer and it’s celebrated.
This space, my sister, a friend in Chicago, and with my counselor so far.
Places I can’t bring it up:
-certain friend groups (for now)
I want to focus on the good spaces where I can feel fully myself, but when most of my life revolves around the 5 spaces above I feel inauthentic.
Here’s to another year of a closeted queer! 🥂
Hello everyone I am going on a date tomorrow and my whole self is excited. Like. First is it even called a “date” we are “meeting up” but also met on a dating app... so there is that.
And how does one go on a casual date without thinking you have to get married? Why did I grow up with that? Like can’t Christians just date and the end.
Supes serious Christian married dude once said “you only have two options: you marry them or you break up”
But. Can’t you just stop dating? Or…
I wrote a poem thing!!! It deals with mental health symptoms, mentions addictions, and is quite the emotions of myself. Please feel free to scroll past, or read and comment! I’d love to hear how it made you feel or think!
I’m simultaneously excited that this is a hashtag and slightly disappointed that it’s not actually just 6 people.
Likes potatoes, reading, philosophical discussions, guys, girls, humans, wombats.
Musician, artist, pretends to be special and unique.
she/her 5w4 23
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